Friday, August 15, 2014

#MyBlackLifeMattersBecause

 
 
I have been mostly silent this week because of a host of things, but events of this week have not gone unnoticed.

As a human being, I am severely saddened that this keeps happening. When the Trayvon Martin case was going on, someone commented on my post and said, "why is this one so important?" How incredibly insensitive of this person. I am a positive person. I love all cultures...I am a black woman with a heart for all of God's people. Yet, I stand before you today and tell you that as a rational person, there is no way that these are "coincidences" or that "he or she must have been doing something wrong." Nothing is going to be solved until we all get real and recognize that having a black president doesn't mean that we have arrived and overcame racism. I am here to tell you that racism is alive and well. Everywhere. We're not making it up. My husband experiences it. I experience it. My children experience it. It is an indisputable fact and no one can tell us differently. I could post daily on some negative, racist issue that occurs, but I choose to not let evil win.

As the wife and mother of black men, I understand the pain that our culture is experiencing. It could have easily been my husband or my sons. I try to continually tell my son that although we (his family and friends) see him as the wonderful human being that he is, there are many in the world that do not. My husband has been stopped countless times...I remember one time he was running with a hoodie on and the police stopped to ask him why he was running in "this" neighborhood. He had no ID on him....He told the policeman that he owned a home not too far away and they let him go....it is only by the grace of God that it didn't end badly. My heart aches for the families of these children. Black people's lives do matter.

As a leader in the body of Christ, I implore that believers remember that we are yet called to be peacemakers and understand that the battle is not ours. God is not to blame for the evil in the world, but He will make all things work for our good. Ephesians 6:12 tells us that: "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." Does that mean that we all sit and do nothing? Nope. It means that act according to the strategy that He has given us and trust that He is with us. It means actions that would honor Him. It means action that demand justice and unrelenting courage in the face of fear. I do not have the answers, but we are to connect to the one that does. We are to be prisoners of hope, yet realistic that we have a ways to go. I need and charge to the body of Christ to leave their comfortable pews, off their computers arguing over scripture, and get in the street to serve like they are supposed to be. Be the light. For real or go on somewhere and sit down.

Be blessed in and on purpose.

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Lady in Waiting....The Testimony of Faithfulness

This is a testimonial from a single woman who is standing on God's promises and waiting for Him to what He said. Her testimony touched my heart and as I pray for all singles, I wanted to share this with you. She is living a life of no compromise. I am proud of her and the example that she provides to others. She is an example of many that knows God will honor their faithfulness to Him.

Please leave feel free to leave a note of encouragement, prayer, or kindness....or just be encouraged yourself. 

"As I prayed and pondered God's plan for my life regarding a life partner.....There are so many men that I have met and dated who ultimately want a woman to give them sex. These are men who have not taken the time to get to know you. Invested any real amount if time in knowing who you are as it relates to you the total person. I have personally decided to keep my answer "NO" for casual relationship sex.

The Lord spoke to me about this issue and He calls me daughter when He speaks to me about this concern. He said that He set me up with my own house so that I can afford to be on my own. A car and income to be able to provide for myself. (Yes I still struggle). This is to dispel the emotions associated with temptation so that compromise is minimized.

God is my provider my husband and my friend. I am always busy out and about and meeting people. I must have faith that God still has a mate for me. The one who is kind honest and who walks in character that resembles God."

Signed,

Lady in waiting.
Single at 50s

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Truthful Tuesday, 8 July Pt. II

Truthful Tuesday: We all have "issues" and "stuff." If God disqualified or even viewed folks like man does under the guise of "discernment" (which is really undercover control to keep folks down), there'd be slim pickings. God says that He continues the good work in us and will carry it on to completion until the day Jesus comes (Philippians 1:6).

David was a unfaithful and an adulterer, but God said David was a man after HIS heart. Paul was a murderer and wrote a great portion of the NT.

Don't get it twisted- we don't use these as a license to keep sinning sin or to continually operate in known sin. Nor does this excuse us from proper accountability and fellowship. We use their examples and motivation to move FORWARD in our lives.

Thank God for His grace!

Truthful Tuesday, 8 July Version

Truthful Tuesday: Be mindful of distractions even in causes that may seem right. I was about to take a course of action this week....and I heard the Lord say, "Is that why I sent you there?" Instantly, I got up and halted the action. While it seemed right to me, God was showing me that it was wrong and off track for His purpose in my life.

Scripture tells us that...."Before every person lies a road that seems to be right, but at the end of that road death and destruction wait." - Proverbs 16:25

Let God order your steps and allow Him to make your path straight and on target. Be blessed in and on purpose!
♡♡♡

Sunday, June 29, 2014

Keep Your Dream... (Marriage)

A few days ago, a young lady shared that a woman who had been married for 30 years told her to NEVER get married and just have a boyfriend because marriage has too many problems. So never make a commitment? Hmm..not!

People.....never let anyone kill your dream. If God said it.....Keep believing. He is a promise keeper! While I can understand the woes of a 30 year marriage, folks need to put God first and stop settling for mediocrity.

My response to her:

Been with my husband for 20 years and we've been married 17 years. If a type of hell could go wrong in marriage, it has in ours. We made commitment to not just survive...but to thrive. Commitment is not for the weak.

....Keep your dream. Marriage is beautiful. With God at the helm, we are overcomers and triumphant over ALL.

Marriage is what you make it.. Not all roses, but not all thorns either. Love is an action word!

If you are waiting for a mate and your God ordained time has not arrived, keep standing! God is a redeemer of time and He is the God of the impossible. He will keep His word. Do not let the enemy steal your promise and entice you to give up!

Standing in agreement with you for God's promises. Love you all!  ♡♡♡

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Accurate Discernment

Good Morning:

.......Accurate discernment is the ability to see the light and the dark....the good and the evil. Accurate discernment should drive you to compassion to pray & bless your enemies, and to seek God's strategy on what to do with the info you have.

It will not send you out calling folks demons on social media. It will not cause you to discern someone else until you can LOOK IN THE MIRROR and truly see yourself. Often what you see in them is a REFLECTION.

Discernment is a tool of love for people and should drive you to humility and compassion.  It is a weapon of mass destruction only in the spiritual realm. God did not intend for us to use it to tear each other down. That's the enemy's job. Don't help him.

#deliveranceisthechildrensbread
#stophelpingsatan
#loveshouldprevail



Saturday, April 5, 2014

~No Agenda Can Stop God's Purposes and Promises From Coming To Pass! ~

Watching this movie called Enders Game. Throughout the movie, many try to hold Ender back based on their own agenda. However, the call on his life pulled him higher regardless of man's tactics and schemes.

......And such is life. Do not think for one second that your destiny is tied to man's agenda. God is in control. Your circumstances are merely the route; your path and journey has been set by the Commander In Chief Himself, God Almighty!

Romans 8:28 tells us that: "We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him. He appointed them to be saved in keeping with His purpose."

Trust and believe that.com!

~ No Agenda Can Hold God's Purposes and Promises from Coming to Pass!~